Stopped at the abandoned mercantile. It was bustling with activity on my visit 10 years earlier. |
Marcia's Graduation photo |
Marcia was very timid, humble and conventional. She didn't learn to drive until she was nearly 60-years-old because learning made her so anxious she would quit. But after her divorce it was as if she had broken the shell she had built around her and she became amazingly brave.
My Mom Suzi, my Grandmother Dora and my Aunt Marcia |
When Steve and I came to Crescent City, CA I was determined to ride to Happy Camp, which is only 85 miles away. But the ride intimidated me because it's over a rather serious mountain range. I invited Steve to ride with me but he wasn't much interested. I invited my friend Charleyn, who lives in nearby Brookings, OR. Charleyn and her husband Chad have a 2-year-old and most of their free time is spent close to home. So after 6 weeks of procrastinating, I set out to ride alone.
Stopped in O'Brien for a break. |
Near the summit in the Klamath National Forest |
The Google Map tells the tale |
As I came upon one short straightaway, a doe stepped out in the road before me. I wasn't going fast, so I slowed down and kept my distance. She stopped and we locked eyes. She was gentle, unafraid and utterly beautiful. I felt an amazing sense of peace and connection with the forest in that moment.
I continued the ride and arrived in Happy Camp tired, hungry and happy. After I fueled up, grabbed a bite and a cold drink, I headed to the cemetery. It was hot and humid in the valley, as well as full of smoke from a nearby forest fire. The town had changed so dramatically over the last 10 years. Many of the businesses were boarded up and I saw quite a few homes abandoned. When the real estate bubble burst in 2008, this town was hit hard.
I was so grateful to arrive! |
Then I saw another doe. She was standing off to the left, lazily eating the grass. She looked up at me and we both stood still for a long time. She slowly climbed the hill, stopping to nibble along the way. Something told me to follow her. Sure enough, she had been standing at Marcia's grave!
As I sat beside her headstone I felt relieved. For a few moments I remembered her laugh, her voice and her smile and I felt really good. I guess I had expected to feel sad when I saw her headstone for the first time, but I didn't. It had taken so long for me to finally get back there and it was such a challenging ride, all I could feel was accomplishment and relief.
I'm glad I took the ride and I'm really glad I ended up doing it alone. Although I didn't feel the way I had anticipated when I arrived, I was fine with it. It was just something I needed to do for myself.
I'm sure Marcia was there with me and I'm sure she is proud of the adventurous woman I've become!
I was pooped when I stopped in O'brien on my way back to Crescent City |
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I am glad you made it back to Happy Camp. I've never ridden up there but friends rave about the twisties.
ReplyDeleteThanks Brandy. You know, you have so many great roads in Oregon. But I really would highly suggest this ride. I loved the solitude.
DeleteSuch a fantastic story and it brought back memories of my ride to find my dads resting place in Salisbury Connecticut. Sash.... Yes you must get out on your own now and again. It's good for the soul. Hugs!
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